在轰隆隆的soho酒吧，一位泡妞无数的朋友，拿着手机，给我看着相册，炫耀着过往的战绩。然后很认真地对我说：“其实我不是你们想象的那样，我对每个女孩子都挺认真的，只是不知道为什么和她们一上了床，就不喜欢她们了！” 他停顿了一下，在手机了翻出一张女孩的相片 “但是这个女孩子，我真的很喜欢她，所以我到现在都没和她上过床。” 我到没有很注意他翻出来的相片，心思还停留在他最后一句话。喜欢她就不要和她上床，呵呵，简直就是柏拉图式恋爱的现代解释。
在钱柜的k歌小包厢里，一情场浪子凑了过来，打开手机相册。“这女孩漂亮吧！” 他问到，“嗯，的确挺漂亮的! 小子你有运到了，呵呵！” 他继续说着：“模特来的，前两天在soho泡到的，第二天就上了，刚刚还追着发短信问我在哪？” 看着这哥们难以掩饰的自信的目光，我突然想到不知什么时候在网上看过的一片文章，说做爱可以提高自信心，也是，谁能抵挡享受被爱的诱惑呢，特别是如此漂亮的一个女孩。
坐在十八号俱乐部一个包间里，我早到了一点，空荡荡的包厢里面，公主加服务员比客人还多好几倍。“怎么不去国会呢？”我问，唯一一个和我一样早到的朋友马上很神秘的压低了声音对我说“等下你别提国会这字眼，来的朋友里有个被他女朋友抛弃了，那个女的还去了国会当小姐。” 不得不承认这故事还是挺传奇的，本想八卦点细问下去，这时候妈咪带着一堆小姐一窝蜂的涌了进来。。。
“记不记得我上次喝醉了叫出来的女孩叫什么名字？” 正在动物园门口吃烧烤的我冷不防被问，我对着有点醉意的哥们笑了笑， 说：“大哥，首先我喝醉的次数比你多，再说你次次带出来的女都不同，我犯得着发傻去记她们的名字吗！” 我朋友也尴尬地笑了笑。
在小圆咖啡馆，一大堆男女有说有笑，我在一旁百无聊赖地抽着烟，陪着笑。一个就来结婚的朋友凑过来低声问：“其实你整天来这赴这些酒局，饭局，不觉得闷吗？” 我笑了笑说：“没所谓，反正我也无聊，打发下时间而已，just to kill some time!” 朋友对我的回答唏嘘不已
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This Modern Love
Bloc Party
To be lost in the forest, to be cut adrift
You've been trying to reach me, you bought me a book
To be lost in the forest, to be cut adrift
I've been paid, I've been paid
To be lost in the forest, to be cut adrift
You've been trying to reach me, you bought me a book
To be lost in the forest, to be cut adrift
I've been paid, I've been wait, I've been...
Don't get offended, if I seem absent minded
Just keep telling me facts, and keep making me smarter
And don't get offended, if I seem absent minded
I get tongue-tied
Baby, you've got to, be more discerning
I've never known, what's good for me
Baby, you've got, to be more demanding
I will be yours
I'll pay for you, anytime
I'll pay for you, anytime
And you told me you wanted, to eat up my sadness
Well jump on, enjoy, you can gorge away
You told me you wanted, to eat up my sadness
Jump right
Baby, you've got to be more discerning
I've known never known what's good for me
And baby, you've got to be more demanding
Jump left
What are you holding out for?
What's always (in the way)?
Why so damn absent-minded?
Why so scared (of romance)?
Ah, ah, ah, ah
This modern love (Ah, ah, ah), breaks me
Ah, ah, ah, ah
This modern love (Ah, ah, ah), wastes me
Ah, ah, ah, ah
This modern love (Ah, ah, ah), breaks me
Ah, ah, ah, ah
This modern love (Ah, ah, ah), wastes me
Do you wanna come over, and kill some time?
Do you wanna come over, and kill some time?
Do you wanna come over, and kill some time?
Throw your arms around me
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